Birthdays: Weekends: The people I love

I spent the weekend at two birthday parties for two very distinct people. I like those parties spent at home (mine or theirs) because you can have all of your friends over, have conversation, and not have it interrupted by club music, or a waiter that wants you to evacuate the table. J has converted me on this as the boys often gather here or another home, to just catch up.

The first, a long time friend of mine, was celebrating her 32nd birthday. She is someone who goes all out for every birthday, mine included, and hers was no less. She hired some fire dancers, and at last check, had a date with one of the guys. (Bet that will be some kinky sex, babe!) She reminds me that life is not all serious and is not all about me or you, all of the time, but when it is, it should be celebrated and enjoyed. Thank you, Amy.

The second, was J’s friend from law school. Jealously, I’d like to add that she is hot, single and not bi-sexual. Blissfully, the idea of J and her as a couple is laughable, and you get that from the outset. She’s a real ball buster and I like that about her because she does it without the feminist angle. There is nothing like a woman who can neuter you without playing the victim role. Hi-five, Mari!

On some crazy impulse, at the second party yesterday, J and I were overcome with lust. Ever have it just hit you out of no where? It just took a look and all of the sudden, we were making out like a couple of teenagers in a public restroom at the hotel where the second one was held. Thank God for locks because this sex was held on the sink and against the wall of the above mentioned ladies room.

The teethmarks on my neck and shoulders didn’t go unnoticed, but J knew they wouldn’t as I was wearing a dress that showed off both areas. He did it on purpose and this morning I noticed some bruising. I wish I knew how he keeps his focus like that. I can’t do those things mid-sex because I’m wrapped up in the sensation of it all. He plays my strings just right, knows just where to touch to make my knees give out, or my body erupt in goosebumps.

So that’s my weekend recap. Next weekend is the clubbing weekend for me and the girls. I’ll let you know how it goes. I’m going to buy something that will make J’s blood pressure spike.